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Blogger brutally trolled online opens up on cyberbullying


Last year, blogger Nabela Noor posted a makeup tutorial.

In the video, the beauty blogger, who frequently was cyberbullied, wrote hateful comments from internet trolls in contour cream on her face.

The video went viral — and changing the blogger’s life in a big way.

Now, in an editorial for Glamour U.K.‘s #BlendOutBullying campaign, the blogger speaks about the one comment that changed it all for her: “If I looked like you, I would kill myself.”

I’ve been told to kill myself because of how I look, have been called a waste of space for how I look, but another human being telling me that if they looked like me, they would be so appalled that they would choose not to exist at all? That was new. And it stung,” she wrote.

Blogger goes viral in a YouTube video meant to reclaim her body <em>(Photo via YouTube)</em>
Blogger goes viral in a YouTube video meant to reclaim her body (Photo via YouTube)

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Sending you my love always. 💞

A post shared by Nabela Noor (@nabela) on May 18, 2017 at 1:01pm PDT

Noor, who says her experience with bullies dates back to grade school, explains how appearing in the public eye as an influencer required lifelong training in the world of bullies.

Here’s the thing — I have been bullied for my appearance for as long as I can remember. From being criticized for my weight as a young girl by my own relatives, to being called ‘fat’ or an ‘elephant’ in classrooms from as early as the third grade; my appearance has always been a topic of conversation. Being a figure in the public eye is no exception,” she wrote.

Noor also says that when she shares photos of herself looking comfortable and confident, she’s accused of promoting obesity.

Eventually, the hateful comments she received began to affect her on a deeper level.

It was around the time that I received comments like ‘If I looked like you, I would kill myself’ that I knew I needed to address my bullies directly. I needed them to know that their words did not define me. I defined me. This is what birthed the video that changed my life forever,” she wrote.

The response to the video empowered Noor and inspired major brands like Olay and IT Cosmetics to work with her.

She made a vow to herself to never stay quiet again when it comes to trolls.

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#throwback to being a plus size bride wearing a custom lehenga designed by @sushmareddycouture 💕 I wish there were more desi designers who designed for all body types. I remember going into soooo many shops in NY & MD for my wedding dress and just being turned away because they didn't have my size. The sad thing is…I know that my body is relatively average. I'm a size 12/14. For desi designers to not accommodate to larger sizes that comprise millions of women, it's not only heartbreaking but it's also humiliating. In my "When A Brown Girl Dates A White Guy" video I just posted, I jokingly mention that Seth's collection of desi attire is way bigger than mine. & sadly that is 100% true. I don't have many salwar sets, lehengas, etc because finding my size has always been a battle. I don't know designers who are eager to work with plus size figures and on most holidays, I wake up in tears because I dread going to my closet and picking out an outfit from my closet. On Eid I'm usually focused on how ugly I feel, I'm not gonna lie. And then beside me I've got Ken looking all cute I just wanna squeeze him and kiss him and…ok back to what I was saying…I know lots of places can do alterations but I can't explain it – from being told they don't HAVE ENOUGH FABRIC to the nasty looks from the store clerks with their eyes scanning me and then Seth…going shopping for lehengas and salwars has become my least favorite thing to do over the years. I wish some things were different in our culture. This is definitely one of those things. Hoping 2017 brings more inclusive desi fashion houses who not only accommodate but showcase beautiful plus size fashion. 💕 📸: @annaandmateo

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While she said the video didn’t put a full stop to bullies’ comments, she said it did help her reclaim her body.

Now, she feels it’s more important than ever to spread her message of body positivity.

Blending out the cruel words others have called me did not put a stop to the bullying, but it allowed me to reclaim the control over my own body and my own self. Blending out the bullying set me free. I was no longer held captive by the words of others,” she wrote.


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