Mel Greig: 'My happy place doesn’t include a man'

A few weeks ago I had a complete epiphany and if I’m honest... men haven’t been on my mind.

Ladies, I have now entered phase 4 of a break up and I would like to call this phase “Zero F@#kities".

I hit this phase at the 10 -onth mark of my separation.

This phase is when you become completely empowered and you wake up smiling. You have found complete happiness within yourself and you are no longer searching for someone else to bring you happiness or make you feel good.

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I have been through a few tough breakups, but I have never experienced this phase before.

I don’t know if it’s because I’ve been through so much heartache or if it’s a phase that we will all hit at some point in our lives, but for the first time in my life I don’t feel I need a man to complete me.

Should having a partner define us? Does it complete us? Or should it actually complement us?

I don’t feel that I’m missing out on anything, I don’t miss having a partner and for the first time in a long time I feel that my life is back on track and exactly where it should be. Is this sounding too deep?

To feel this much self-control and satisfaction is something I’ve craved for a long time.

It’s not even about girl power and being able to do what I want when I want, and to wear my granny knickers in bed without being judged . . . this is about being happy with myself and not relying on someone else to fill any void because I have no void.

If I wanted to date someone now I could, but why settle on just any stud muffin?

Why not wait until you find someone that truly complements you and inspires you to be an even better version of yourself.

I no longer stay up late at night scrolling through my "likes" to see who has given me a cheeky like . . . because I give “Zero F@#kities” I don’t need that ‘like’ to make me feel sexy.

I certainly don’t need a guy complimenting my perky boobs (yes I did intentionally say perky, I’m allowed to pump myself up) I just feel that I don’t need a guy in my life at the moment. All I need is complete faith in myself, in who I am and where my journey is going.

I just feel we spend too much time worrying about finding a partner and I am so guilty of that, it’s always felt like I’ve ‘needed’ one and I’m sure when the time is right I will once again fall pathetically in love but for now I’m happy with just me.

This phase could also be a reaction to my impending divorce, or to me having to make a decision about what to do with my frozen embryos . . . or it could really be that I’m so content and give “Zero F@#kities”.

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