Apparently, size 8 is 'fat' in France

Savita Iyer

It is a truth, pretty much universally acknowledged, that French women can not only have, but also eat their cake — and their croissants, cheese, and charcuterie — without gaining an ounce.

Right? Well it was, at any rate, until the middle of June, when the new book We’re Not Born Fat (On ne naît pas grosse), by Gabrielle Deydier, shed light on France’s and French women’s attitudes toward food, weight, and body image.

The book has shattered the romantic ideal of the French woman, one that’s been extolled over the years in books and magazine articles, as naturally and effortlessly slim. Because according to Gabrielle’s research, French women are obsessed about their weight, and in a country where “you’re considered fat if you’re a size 8,” many are prepared to do what it takes to stay well below that number, including extreme dieting, chain smoking, and resorting to bariatric and cosmetic surgery.

Plus-size author reveals France's obsession with weight. Photo: Gabrielle Deydier

“There’s this idea that there are no fat people in France. Well, it’s just that you don’t see them because they hide themselves away,” Gabrielle tells Yahoo Lifestyle. “In France, people don’t mince words — they tell you what they think about you, and through my whole life, I have faced insults and discrimination.”

We’re Not Born Fat, Gabrielle says, is as much an exposé of France’s attitudes toward weight as it is a chronicle of her own experiences as a plus-size French woman. And with the book, France seems to have let out its collective waistband.

Gabrielle has received scores of letters from readers. Many thank her for enlightening them on the harshness overweight people endure in France, and apologise for the way in which they may have discriminated against plus-size people.

Her book talks of her own struggles as a plus-size woman. Photo: Instagram

“I also get letters from women thanking me for telling it as it is, for liberating them from their complexes,” Gabrielle says. “One woman wrote that she has been making herself throw up for 20 years to stay thin so she could keep her husband and her job.”

The book is such a hit that Gabrielle received a call from the office of the mayor of Paris, inviting her to be a key participant in France’s very first anti-fatphobia day, or Journee contre la Grossophobie, which is being planned for December.

More importantly, the book has reignited France’s fat-positive movement.

“We’re so happy to see the impact that Gabrielle’s book has had in France — to see how ignorant people were about the many discriminations we face here and to see how other fat people have been able to come forward, thanks to her experiences,” Daria Marx, founder of Gras Politique, an organisation that advocates for France’s overweight population and collects testimonies about discrimination, tells Yahoo Lifestyle.

In France size 8 is considered 'fat', Gabrielle says. Photo: Instagram

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“Before this book, the term ‘fatphobic’ didn’t exist in France’s vocabulary. But now people can recognise what discrimination against fat people is. The book is just the beginning, though, and we at Gras Politique will be organising a series of events to continue to sensitise people to the issue of fatphobia, and to advocate so that fat French women can have the same rights as those that wear a size small.”

Gabrielle, who weighs 150kg, says she began gaining weight in adolescence. In addition to facing constant scrutiny and ridicule, she struggled to find clothes to wear and apartments to live in. And although she has degrees in film/media studies and political science, she struggled to find a job.

“People tell you they’re not going to hire you because you’re fat,” she says. “There are so many obstacles you face here if you’re fat: There are no plus-size hospital robes, for instance. And you’d be hard pressed to find a wheelchair that can accommodate an overweight person, so if you’re injured and you have to go to hospital, you’ll probably have to walk down the hallways.”

She is hoping to start to help address 'fatphobia' in France. Photo: Twitter

In France, it’s a cultural imperative for women to be able to cook fine meals with premier ingredients, to throw fabulous parties and entertain guests, but they’re also supposed to stay thin their whole lives, Daria says, to live up to an ideal vision of how a woman should be. Women bear the brunt of this “double whammy” of sexist and weight oppression, and overweight women are so harshly stigmatised that they tend to hide themselves from society.

Now Daria is hoping the book will urge France’s overweight population — women and men alike — to come out of the shadows, find their voice, and claim access to public space.

She hopes her book will inspire others to feel comfortable in their own skin. Photo: Twitter

In the U.S., fat activism dates back to the 1960s, pioneered by groups like the National Association to Advance Fat Acceptance, but the movement only became visible to the mainstream world with the advent of social media, says writer and activist Virgie Tovar.

“The self-documentation made possible with phone cameras was revolutionary because typically fat people are documented in an ethnographic way, by other people for other people,” Virgie says. “This was the first time that large numbers of fat people had access to both camera technology and a means to publish photos of ourselves for free.”

But despite the conversation being mainstream, Virgie still feels we have a long way to go with our attitudes toward and acceptance of fat.

Unfortunately, the discourse around fat is still centered on the notion of weight loss, Virgie says, and this wrenches valuable resources and attention away from a very important movement.

“Fat liberation is nuanced, new, interesting,” Virgie says, “and I don’t understand why some women can’t respect that people want just one space — the fat movement — where they don’t have to hear about weight loss.”

This is Gabrielle’s ideal as well, and she hopes that her book will enable the plus-size community in France to take the first important step in that direction.

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