Fitness star fires back at body-shamers


If you’ve ever walked into the gym as a woman and felt uncomfortable in the weights section – which always seems to be filled with ripped guys staring at their biceps – you are not alone.

Sadly, it’s because a stereotype still exists that weightlifting is for men. That women shouldn’t be doing weights and ‘bulking’. That women shouldn’t look ‘too manly’.

Those are just some of the things international fitness trainer and mum Kelsey Wells hears every single day.

But the Instagram star, who has over 1 million followers, wants to reverse the negative stigma around women doing weight training. And she’s developed a new PWR program to do it.

“The thinking that weight training is manly is absolutely ridiculous,” Kelsey tells Be.

Kelsey is fighting the stereotype that weightlifting is for men. Photo: Instagram/Kelseywells
Kelsey is fighting the stereotype that weightlifting is for men. Photo: Instagram/Kelseywells

“I am very proud to be changing the dialogue because weightlifting is an incredible form of exercise with so many benefits.”

The 27-year-old is constantly amazed by some of the ignorant comments she receives from people that believe weightlifting ‘isn’t feminine’.

And she has tried to make it clear to her followers that all women need to do to be beautiful and feminine is to be themselves.

Kelsey’s new 12-Week PWR-Power program is designed to help sculpt lean muscle. Photo: Instagram/Kelseywells
Kelsey’s new 12-Week PWR-Power program is designed to help sculpt lean muscle. Photo: Instagram/Kelseywells

“It has nothing to do with what you look like. So free yourself of the opinions of others and the beauty standards of society,” she wrote in a post online.

“There is 100 per cent beauty and femininity in lifting weights.

“Lifting is not ‘manly’. Lifting weights does not make you automatically ‘bulky’. Lifting weights is badass and so are you!”

Comments along the lines of “you’re looking manly” or “careful you don’t want to be bulky” or “weightlifting isn’t feminine” never cease to amaze me. I choose not to respond to negativity, but I do have something to say about this and I want to say it loud and clear. NOT in response to those who have left negative messages and comments, but instead to ALL MY FELLOW WOMEN who have ever received a similar comment or been told they need to do/be something different to be beautiful or feminine. THE ONLY THING A WOMAN NEEDS TO DO TO BE BEAUTIFUL AND FEMININE IS TO BE HERSELF. We empower ourselves when we are living our truth and doing what we are PASSIONATE about with our WHOLE HEARTS. I was always a girly girl growing up and I love getting dressed up on occasion. What has surprised me though is finding I feel most beautiful when I’m gross and sweaty in the gym when I’m pushing myself in my training, and even more so as I’m wrestling on the floor with my son or any time I’m looking into that little face and teaching him about his world. . There is 100% beauty and femininity in lifting weights. Just as there is in dancing. There is beauty in MOTHERHOOD. There is beauty in marriage. There is beauty in being a homemaker. There is beauty in being single. There is beauty in pursuing a career. There is beauty in education, in learning both inside and outside of school. There is beauty in public speaking. There is beauty in private, sincere conversation. There is beauty in writing and cooking and cleaning and singing and playing sports and playing instruments and anything and everything else you might enjoy, because simply there is SO MUCH BEAUTY in YOU, you just need to choose to see it. And it has nothing to do with what you look like. So free yourself of the opinions of others and the beauty standards of society. Pay attention to the moments in life you FEEL beautiful. What are you doing? DO MORE OF THAT. . kelseywells.com/app

A post shared by KELSEY WELLS (@kelseywells) on Sep 22, 2017 at 7:41am PDT

While Kelsey loves sharing photos of her life and her workouts on Instagram she hasn’t bought into the Instagram vs Reality debate.

She feels passionate about being open and transparent with her followers, and does admit having such an influence on others comes with a lot of responsibility.

“It’s very important to me that I show all aspects of my life – the good and the bad days,” Kelsey tells Be.

The fitness star and mum has over 1 million followers on Instagram. Photo: Instagram/Kelseywells
The fitness star and mum has over 1 million followers on Instagram. Photo: Instagram/Kelseywells

“I talk about things like my anxiety because it’s important for my community to know that I’m human and just like everyone else I too have off days.

“I do appreciate the sentiment behind why ‘Instagram vs reality’ started, but everything I post is reality.

“Your good angles and ‘bad’ angles, your bloated tummy and flat tummy, your natural body and flexed body, it’s all real and it’s all you. I aim to embrace and share it all.”


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